A Parent's Guide to Supervising a Child's Online and Internet
Online Children's Safety
Version 1.0 Updated: April 5, 1996
by Robert Cannon, Esq.
Shack, Crawford & Cannon
© Copyright 1996, Robert Cannon.
May be freely copied in full. Credit to the author must be retained.
No fee may be charged for the distribution of this FAQ.
The Internet is a wonderful world of
new opportunity for children. It is a colossal dynamic library
filled with information, programs, art, material, and
new opportunities to meet people. It is the opportunity to expand
minds andexperiences, and to develop skills necessary for the future.
However, this new environment creates a risk that your child may be
exposed to undesirable materialand people. There are numerous
sites providing sexually explicit information,violent content,
technical information on how to build things such as bombs, and
hate speech. Other sites and individuals seeks to gather information
from children that you may feel uncomfortable providing.
These individuals might intend harm or might seek to gather market
research and attempting to advertiseproducts to your child. The purpose
of this FAQ (Frequently Asked Questions) is to provide parents with
suggestions that will empower them to effectively supervise their
child's experience on the Internet.
What is the Internet? The Internet is a
global, decentralized network of computers taking advantage of
common protocols permitting the transfer of information. No individual,
company or government controls the Internet. The most frequently
used areas of the Internet are the World Wide Web, e-mail, USENET
newsgroups, FTP, and the IRC.
The World Wide Web is the multimedia area of
the Internet. A WWW page can look like a magazine page. WWW browsers
permit users to view text, photographs, and video. Individuals
can also access audio, data, andprograms. WWW sites can be
found by typing a few key words into a search engine
and, with in seconds, receiving a list of sites containing
those words. Punch in the word "playboy" and you will get a list of
the "Playboy Magazine" web pages and of other sites that have a
link to the "Playboy" site.
FTP stands for File Transfer Protocol.
FTP sites aredirectories of files of all types. These
files can be in any form and can be found with search engines.
The difference from the WWW is that FTP is not multimedia;
the files must be downloaded and then viewed or used through the
appropriate software programs.
E-mail is an electronic mail system in which
different users can exchange messages. The content of the mail
exchanged can take all forms. Although normally text,
messages can be pictures or sound files.
The USENET is a bulletin board area of the
Internet. Individuals can post messages and receive responses.
The messages will remain on the bulletin board for a limited
period of time, such as two weeks. Individuals search for the
most appropriate bulletin board for the subject desired.
At this site will be hundreds of messages about that subject.
These messages can be text, programs, sound files, or pictures.
The IRC is composed of "real-time" live chat rooms.
Each room has a name that may relate to the subject matter discussed.
A user can usually find an IRC chat room on virtually any
Supervising Your Child Most parents
complain that their children are more computer literate then they
are (they point out that they are still attempting to figure out
how to program their VCRs). They cannot comprehend how
they can possibly supervise their child's experience on the Internet.
What follows is a list of suggestions that should help. Not all
of these suggestions may be acceptable to you. Which
suggestions you use will depend in part in your belief
in your child's right to privacy and ability to make mature
decisions. This FAQ provides parents with an ability to make
Parent must always remember the investment that they have made,
both in the computer and in their child. If they commit the
time necessary for such a significant investment, parents can
make their child's experience both positive,productive, and
The Internet is a wonderful new opportunity for children.
As with everything,the quality of a child's experience will
be directly related to a parent's investment in that experience.
If you take the time, you can make that experience positive
- Keep the family computer in a family room.
Place it where you can watch and participate in your child's
- Spend time with your child both online and off line.
If online material is offensive to you, take the
time to teach your child your values. Explain to your child
why you believe the material is wrong and the harm
you believe that it might cause.
- Purchase a filtering software program.
There are a number of programs that filter and block
access to adult Internet sites. You can use these programs to
assist in your supervision of your child.
Another option is Bess, the Internet Retriever
- Monitor your credit card bill. Many adult
Internet sites require credit cards in order to gain access.
If your credit card is used, you should have a record of it.
- Inquire into child accounts. Some online
services have special accounts especially geared for children,
with restricted access to chatrooms and the Internet.
- Tell your child not to play with strangers.
The Internet version of this means never tell a stranger
personal information. Teach yourchild to never give out
your address, your phone number, or any personal information.
Some individuals desire to harm children. Others seek to gather
market research. They might entice
children to their site with graphics and games. These sights
can be packed with advertisements. They may reward children
for providing personal information, their likes and dislikes,
and information concerning their friends. They may e-mail
your child with more advertisements, request more information,
and request that they return to their advertisement laden sites.
Some services set up user profiles when setting up accounts.
This information can be accessed by the public through
commands such as WHOIS. Be careful when
setting up accounts that the information provided
will not bepublicly available.
- Introduce new friends to mom and dad first.
If your child has made an online friend and would like to get to
know that person better,ask your child to introduce the friend
to you first. Many quality relationships can be formed in
this new environment if the proper precautions are taken.
- Use a Nick Name . When entering chat rooms,
bulletinboards and other public rooms, encourage your child
to pick out and use a favornick name distinct from their real
name. This is a regular practice on the IRC and permits a
nice level of anonymity, allowing users to learn more about each
other only when and if they and their parents are ready. Remember
that others will be less than honest about their identity as well.
- Report suspicious activity. Some conduct is
illegal in both the real and the virtual world. If someone is
stalking or harassing your child, keep copies and records of
the messages and let the authorities know. You may also wish
to notify the systems administrator of both your service and the
service from which the message was transmitted.
Robert Cannon, Esq.
Shack, Crawford & Cannon
1150 Connecticut Avenue, N.W. Suite 900
Washington, D.C. 20036
Author welcomes suggestions and comments.
Software products listed for informational purposes only;
no endorsement has been made or should be implied.
Filtering software companies not listed are invited to
transmit their URL's to the author. This article
does not constitute legal advice; no attorney / client
relationship has been established.